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Heidi Singfield's avatar

The grief you felt is such a gift and I really appreciate your sharing it. It’s the total acceptance of what is happening and fully feeling it. This brought up a few times I have experienced that type of grief. Once when I realized I was never going to have a different and nurturing childhood and and another huge outpouring of grief when I saw a picture of an African woman holding her emancipated and dying baby with absolutely nothing she could do. Somehow I feel the work you did here is part of the healing without any hope involved.πŸ™

Tomi's avatar

Thank you! That last sentence really says it all - never looked at it from that angle.